Couples Making SENSE of Relationship
UNISENSE™ is coming to understand the place of "Agreement" necessary to successfully navigate the nuances of Relationship. How can two walk together except they agree? In order for "any" type of relationship to flourish or succeed in any form, there must be agreement. When it comes to "Nuptials" or the thought of marriage, getting a clear understanding and "sense" of one another is paramount to the desired bliss that engagement promises. No one ever gets married without the desire of enhancing their life because of the "union." In other words... people go into marriage with all sorts of pre-conceived notions or fairytales as to how that union will benefit them. The purpose of "UNISENSE™" is to make "sense" of the expectations people have when choosing to connect with another. There should always be a vetting of sort, to determine if in fact the two mesh or agree in the advancement of the other. Understanding the single nature of themselves individually and how their completed package can contribute to that of another's completed package is essential to the unified completeness of the whole towards success. Once individuals are completely aware of their own Position, weaknesses, strengths, growth areas, habits, deal breakers, pros and cons– then and only then can they selflessly consider unifying with another, acknowledging the same, with the mutual objective of Agreement. There's much to be considered prenuptial– what are the factors that drive daily lifestyle of the individual you intend to befriend, marry or associate with? It is very healthy to explore the thoughts you both have relative to relationship. Below you will find a few key targets that we approach in an effort to gauge and expose possible hindrance to a successful union. Our hope is to stem the tide of impending divorce and broken families by coaching couples before the "I Do" to establish the verity of the union.
Relational Key Factors
• Intent (Incentive, Drive, Grounds, Cause, Motive)
• Goals (Ambition, Dreams, Aspirations, Future, Vision, Hope)
• History (Financial, Childhood, Criminal, Mental & Emotional)
• Commonality (Agree, Shared, Same, Alike, Interest, Pet Peeves)
• Values (Character, Beliefs, Integrity, Stands, Ideals)
• Religion (Spiritual Position, Ideology, God, Spiritual Practice, Service, Worship)
• Children (Desire, Blend, Discipline, Education, Sociology, Activities)
• Budget (Debt, Credit, Habits, PreNup, View)
• Health (Genetics, Status, Diet, Exercise, Disease, Annoyances, Snoring-Odor-Breath- Teeth)
• Education (Pedigree, Completion, Degrees,Pleasures, Drop-Out, G.E.D.)
• Sex (Likes, DisLikes, Fantasies, Deal breakers, Pet peeve, Fetishes, attraction)
• NonNegotiables (Deal Breakers, Divorce, Separation, Cheating, Lying, Dishonesty)
Making "sense" of your potential life partner's "being..." before the "I Do..." saves people from a lot of heartache, pain, disappointment and expense, down the line. Not to mention the potential irreversible damage inflicted upon the offspring of that "union."
Understanding how to navigate the treacherous waters of unifying two people who have been raised and taught different values growing up is paramount to the potential success of that union. UNISENSE™ is a viable method of pre-marital counsel, couple therapy, family management, agreement, coping skills, and the very possibility of compatibility. Learning these critical areas should be the primal concern of any "sensible" human being prior to commitment and if not both, the one should insist. The mere rebuttal can be the first sign in itself of impending peril.
Avoiding damaging conflict starts at inception– how you start a relationship. What you know going into any relationship only serves to empower that relationship and tie cords early on, that form trusting connections that are very hard to break. This "sense" is the bonding material that almost all successful long term unions possess.
Relational Key Factors
• Intent (Incentive, Drive, Grounds, Cause, Motive)
• Goals (Ambition, Dreams, Aspirations, Future, Vision, Hope)
• History (Financial, Childhood, Criminal, Mental & Emotional)
• Commonality (Agree, Shared, Same, Alike, Interest, Pet Peeves)
• Values (Character, Beliefs, Integrity, Stands, Ideals)
• Religion (Spiritual Position, Ideology, God, Spiritual Practice, Service, Worship)
• Children (Desire, Blend, Discipline, Education, Sociology, Activities)
• Budget (Debt, Credit, Habits, PreNup, View)
• Health (Genetics, Status, Diet, Exercise, Disease, Annoyances, Snoring-Odor-Breath- Teeth)
• Education (Pedigree, Completion, Degrees,Pleasures, Drop-Out, G.E.D.)
• Sex (Likes, DisLikes, Fantasies, Deal breakers, Pet peeve, Fetishes, attraction)
• NonNegotiables (Deal Breakers, Divorce, Separation, Cheating, Lying, Dishonesty)
Making "sense" of your potential life partner's "being..." before the "I Do..." saves people from a lot of heartache, pain, disappointment and expense, down the line. Not to mention the potential irreversible damage inflicted upon the offspring of that "union."
Understanding how to navigate the treacherous waters of unifying two people who have been raised and taught different values growing up is paramount to the potential success of that union. UNISENSE™ is a viable method of pre-marital counsel, couple therapy, family management, agreement, coping skills, and the very possibility of compatibility. Learning these critical areas should be the primal concern of any "sensible" human being prior to commitment and if not both, the one should insist. The mere rebuttal can be the first sign in itself of impending peril.
Avoiding damaging conflict starts at inception– how you start a relationship. What you know going into any relationship only serves to empower that relationship and tie cords early on, that form trusting connections that are very hard to break. This "sense" is the bonding material that almost all successful long term unions possess.
UNISENSE™ is a Ministry of Purpose for Couples willing, and determined to take a look in the mirror, hoping to discover the Greatest parts of themselves. Many issues that Couples have, stem from past experiences and not all those experiences have anything to do with exes. Some past experiences are intwined with youthful scars and pain.
It isn't uncommon to experience the harsh reality of youthful abuse infused in today's adulthood. Becoming a successful couple, first requires discovery and delivery from damaging pain that has left resentment, bitterness and unforgiveness, which inevitably hurts the carrier, while the abuser goes on to enjoy a fun and worry free life that doesn't include any part of the person they abused. In order for a person to experience true freedom, they must be open to, and confront the past with forgiving arms. This is a very necessary part of one's completeness before moving on towards a blissful new relationship.
UNISENSE™ has a unique approach to counseling couples. One question frequently posed to Couples tend to flow like this... "Is this a relationship with marriage in its future or is this just a hook-up?" This ice breaker usually gets the juices flowing and from there... Couples are able to comfortably discuss various possibilities and/or challenges.
The ultimate goal of UNISENSE™ is to guide individuals toward personal meet-ups that introduce self to themselves. This introduction is the most impactful hook-up either participant will ever encounter. Subsequent meetings following this primal introduction awakens deep rooted barriers constructed during very vulnerable times of their lives. The raw emotion sets a stage that most times include painstaking destructive remodeling plans that usually concludes by drawing upon a very different type of canvas– plans of a well defined, obviously new, more open scopes of behavior. Once you truly know yourself can you honestly offer self to someone else and vice versa.
Arriving on the tiers of this stairway leads the participants into a space of "Hear & Speak." This space defines the parameters of communication. Do you actually hear when your partner talks and if so, can you tell them what they just said? Being able to listen as well as engage maturely, is a meticulously strategic discipline well learned before the I-Do and practiced throughout the union. These healthy communication skills build knowledge, understanding, trust, loyalty, commitment, and much needed security.
So... are you really ready for marriage, or are you still figuring things about by playing the field? Please answer this question before hooking up with the marriage material of someone else, it can and will save you both much grief. Perhaps you should consider our "LOOPS" Ministry first before tinkering with God's anointed marriage area!
It isn't uncommon to experience the harsh reality of youthful abuse infused in today's adulthood. Becoming a successful couple, first requires discovery and delivery from damaging pain that has left resentment, bitterness and unforgiveness, which inevitably hurts the carrier, while the abuser goes on to enjoy a fun and worry free life that doesn't include any part of the person they abused. In order for a person to experience true freedom, they must be open to, and confront the past with forgiving arms. This is a very necessary part of one's completeness before moving on towards a blissful new relationship.
UNISENSE™ has a unique approach to counseling couples. One question frequently posed to Couples tend to flow like this... "Is this a relationship with marriage in its future or is this just a hook-up?" This ice breaker usually gets the juices flowing and from there... Couples are able to comfortably discuss various possibilities and/or challenges.
The ultimate goal of UNISENSE™ is to guide individuals toward personal meet-ups that introduce self to themselves. This introduction is the most impactful hook-up either participant will ever encounter. Subsequent meetings following this primal introduction awakens deep rooted barriers constructed during very vulnerable times of their lives. The raw emotion sets a stage that most times include painstaking destructive remodeling plans that usually concludes by drawing upon a very different type of canvas– plans of a well defined, obviously new, more open scopes of behavior. Once you truly know yourself can you honestly offer self to someone else and vice versa.
Arriving on the tiers of this stairway leads the participants into a space of "Hear & Speak." This space defines the parameters of communication. Do you actually hear when your partner talks and if so, can you tell them what they just said? Being able to listen as well as engage maturely, is a meticulously strategic discipline well learned before the I-Do and practiced throughout the union. These healthy communication skills build knowledge, understanding, trust, loyalty, commitment, and much needed security.
So... are you really ready for marriage, or are you still figuring things about by playing the field? Please answer this question before hooking up with the marriage material of someone else, it can and will save you both much grief. Perhaps you should consider our "LOOPS" Ministry first before tinkering with God's anointed marriage area!